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A Meaningful Stag Night

Crossing into Committed Manhood

A 2 day and 1 night gathering

In ancient times, before a man entered marriage or sacred union, his community would gather the men, brothers, uncles, elders, and friends to honour the threshold he was crossing. 

It was a time not for escape or excess, but for reflection, challenge, and blessing. A time to be seen by other men as he let go of his boyhood and stepped fully into the responsibilities and freedoms of mature partnership.


This Meaningful Stag Night reclaims that ancient purpose. In a single powerful evening and day, men come together to:


  • Reflect on what it means to stand at the doorway of commitment.
  • Be witnessed in letting go of the old stories of youth.
  • Speak honestly about fear, hope, and readiness for love.
  • Receive wisdom, challenge, and blessing from other men.
  • Celebrate the courage it takes to love faithfully and wholeheartedly.


Through fire, storytelling, ritual, and conversation, we’ll create a space that honours this profound life transition.


This is not a stag night of distraction, but of initiation — a gathering that marks the moment a man claims his place as partner, husband, and conscious man.

Who This Retreat Is For

This retreat is for men who are preparing to cross the threshold into marriage or long-term committed relationship and who wish to do so with authenticity, depth, and honour. 


It is for those who sense that this moment deserves more than a party, that it calls for reflection, support, and a conscious claiming of mature manhood.


It will particularly suit men who:


  • Are engaged or entering a significant relationship and want to prepare with integrity and heart.
  • Wish to be witnessed by other men as they let go of old patterns and step into responsibility.
  • Are ready to explore what love, commitment, and partnership truly mean for them.
  • Value the guidance of elder men and peers in marking this important life transition.
  • Want to replace the traditional “stag night” with a meaningful rite of passage.  One that celebrates growth, courage, and readiness to love well.


Whether you are soon to be married or simply standing at the edge of deeper commitment, this gathering offers a sacred space to reflect on who you have been, who you are becoming, and how you will show up as a man in partnership.


This is for men who wish to meet love not from boyhood, but from the grounded strength of conscious manhood.

Guide Prices

Self facilitation guide     £150.00


Ceremonial Leader Travelling to You   £350.00 + travel + accommodation


(All prices per person)

Gathering & Meals Only    £195.00

Gathering, Meals & Basic Accomodation  £310.00


Discounts available for block bookings of 3 places or more.


Note - If you are a group or a venue and would like us to come to you please contact us for more details.

If you would like more information please drop us a line....

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